Guided Mediation: A pathway to resolution without court

Separation is hard – but finding a resolution doesn’t always have to be. Mediation offers a more positive, practical pathway forward without going through the court system. And statistics show it works.

If you’re wondering whether mediation is right for you, the good news is that most people who try it, find a resolution.

Why choose mediation?

Mediation helps you reach agreement with the support of a neutral professional. You’ll have the opportunity to talk through parenting, property, and financial concerns in a structured, respectful environment and find a way forward that works for everyone involved, especially your children.

It’s designed to be collaborative, not adversarial. And in many cases it leads to lasting outcomes without the cost, conflict, confusion and delays of court.

Does it really work?

Yes, and the numbers speak for themselves:

Around 70% – 80% of Australian mediation cases reach resolution, often in just a few sessions.
In NSW, 85% of family law disputes that go to mediation are resolved without court.
On average, mediation takes 3 – 6 months, compared to 12 – 18 months in the court system.
Mediation is almost always less expensive and less emotionally taxing than litigation.

While it’s not suitable for every situation, it’s proven to be a highly-effective tool for many separating couples.

Is mediation right for me?

Here’s a quick checklist to help you decide:

Mediation could be a good option if:	Mediation may not be suitable if:
You and your ex are willing to communicate and negotiate in good faith.	There is a history of family violence, intimidation, or abuse.
You want to avoid court and keep things civil.	One party refuses to engage or is acting in bad faith.
There’s no ongoing risk of family violence or coercion.	There are complex legal issues or power imbalances that can’t be managed through mediation.
You want to stay in control of your decisions, rather than have them made by a judge.	You need urgent legal intervention to protect children or property.
You’re looking for a faster, more cost-effective resolution.	Previous attempts at mediation have failed or been unsafe.
You both want what’s best for your children and are open to compromise.

Speak to an expert

Taking the first step can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. Our experienced Separation Consultants support our mediation referrals and have guided hundreds of individuals and families through the process, connecting them with mediators across the country. She can help you understand what to expect, answer your questions, and assess whether mediation is the right fit for your circumstances.

Book a confidential consultation with Sally

Need help getting your partner onboard?

Sometimes one person is more open to mediation than the other. If your partner is unsure or resistant, Sally can work with you to present mediation in a constructive and reassuring way to increase the chance they’ll say yes and at least be open to trying it.

This longer call is designed to support you with strategies and tailored advice.

In cases where children are involved and issues of custody are on the table, mediation must be attempted before taking the case to family court.

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Ready to take the next step?

Mediation offers a proven, practical, and empowering way to resolve separation and family disputes. If you’re ready to explore your options and take back control of your situation, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

The Separation Guide aims to reduce the cost, conflict and confusion of separation and divorce. To learn more about how one of our Network Members could support your separation, take our free three-minute Q&A.

Disclaimer
The information in our resources is general only. Consider getting in touch with a professional advisor if you need legal, financial or wellbeing support.