How to separate in Australia
Know your separation options
Here are 4 key paths you can take to separate and divorce in Australia.
There is no right or wrong way to separate. Generally speaking, however, the ‘angrier’ a separation, the more expensive it is. And the bigger the emotional cost.
That’s why we want to help people find the least time-consuming and stressful process that can also lead to a fair and equitable outcome.
To find out which could be right for you, take our 3-minute Q&A.
You and your ex-partner reach a Separation Agreement by yourselves.
Can suit couples who:
- are amicable & trust each other
- can communicate well
- want to have more control over their separation outcome
- understand what ‘fairness’ means in family law
- have no history of family violence.
We suggest that a Lawyer reviews your draft agreement.
Learn MoreYou and your ex-partner engage one legally-qualified Mediator to help you reach a fair agreement. The Mediator is impartial and not on anyone’s side.
Can suit couples who:
- are amicable & trust each other
- can communicate reasonably well
- want to have more control over their separation
- have no history of family violence.
Learn more
You and your ex-partner engage your own Lawyers to negotiate an agreement on your behalf.
Can suit couples who:
- are not amicable or can’t come to an agreement on their own terms
- don’t trust each other to be honest
- have complex finances
- still want to keep their settlement out of Court.
Having a Lawyer doesn’t have to mean inflaming tensions — all of the Lawyers in our network are committed to de-escalation and Court as a last resort.
Learn moreWhich path could be right for you?
Our confidential 3-minute quiz is designed to give you next steps and connect you with the people and services you need.
| DIY agreement | Guided Mediation | Independent Legal Advice | Decision by the Court | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Separation Guide free resources | ||||
| DIY video series | ||||
| Free initial consultation | ||||
| Access to a Lawyer | ||||
| Legal advice | ||||
| Independent legal representation | ||||
| Getting on the Same Page Document | ||||
| Financial disclosure | * | ** | ** | |
| Separation Agreement template | ||||
| Legal sign-off and Court orders | *** | |||
| Lodgement | *** |
DIY |
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|---|---|
| The Separation Guide free resources | |
| DIY video series | |
| Free initial consultation | |
| Access to a Lawyer | |
| Legal advice | |
| Independent legal representation | |
| Getting on the Same Page Document | |
| Financial disclosure | |
| Separation Agreement template | |
| *** | Legal sign-off and Court orders |
| *** | Lodgement |
Guided Separation |
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|---|---|
| The Separation Guide free resources | |
| DIY video series | |
| Free initial consultation | |
| Access to a Lawyer | |
| Legal advice | |
| Independent legal representation | |
| Getting on the Same Page Document | |
| * | Financial disclosure |
| Separation Agreement template | |
| Legal sign-off and Court orders | |
| Lodgement | |
Independent Legal Advice |
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|---|---|
| The Separation Guide free resources | |
| DIY video series | |
| Free initial consultation | |
| Access to a Lawyer | |
| Legal advice | |
| Independent legal representation | |
| Getting on the Same Page Document | |
| ** | Financial disclosure |
| Separation Agreement template | |
| Legal sign-off and Court orders | |
| Lodgement | |
Court |
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|---|---|
| The Separation Guide free resources | |
| DIY video series | |
| Free initial consultation | |
| Access to a Lawyer | |
| Legal advice | |
| Independent legal representation | |
| Getting on the Same Page Document | |
| ** | Financial disclosure |
| Separation Agreement template | |
| Legal sign-off and Court orders | |
| Lodgement | |
